I love how the internet allows the entire Earth to connect, communicate and work together no matter where you are.

However I am not too fond of centralized corporations abusing their powers and providing these services at the cost of complete disregard for user's privacy and interests.

Building profiles on people. Storing logs of every message you write to whomever you write. Your location, your contacts details, your likes and opinions. Storing everything in a data center forever and ever, in case such information will need to be used.

It's awful, having everything you do, monitored and analyzed. Checking whether what you say or think is deemed right by these authorities. Suppressing thoughts and feelings to what you should feel or think about is horrible and is in no way the world I want to live in.

Fortunately, there are alternatives to this little mess we got ourselves into.

Social networks are a wonderful thing as they do allow us to achieve more wonderful things faster and better by connecting everyone together. It's just that connecting everyone under one roof whose house's rules are chosen by few people is not the best way to do it.

Notes

• ​Facebook has recruited one of the world’s top AI teams, led by Yann LeCun. Their work and Google's are the equivalent of tobacco companies engineering cigarettes to ensure that nicotine hits a smoker's brain more quickly. Facebook and other social networks are the cigarette companies of the mind. Cigarettes blackened our lungs with tar, and social media blacken our brains with distraction, alienation, envy, and loneliness.​

  • Social media networks will become ever more addictive, and by using AI to increase the click-through rate on the ads, they will squeeze ever more money out of their addicts. AI will be essential to the "capture and sale of attention," as Tim Wu puts it, walking users from curiosity to the cash register more and more efficiently.

  • Capitalism is an accelerant for addictive behavior, and we are only just realizing how unhappy people become as a result of the marketplace’s newest and most insidious products. What's worse, the necessary functions performed by our phones and the Internet are fatefully tangled with the apps that addict us. They put the heroin next to the tap water.

• ​FB simply prolonged relationships that should’ve died out a long time ago naturally​

  • Generally you'd lose contact with all these people over time as you mature and just naturally drift apart. No shame in that, the ones you do want to keep in touch with you'd make a real effort for. Now it's so easy to just send a "like" , "congratulations!" or "Happy birthday!" that you find yourself very loosely connected to a bunch of people you don't want to be but feel like everyone else is still in "contact" so you don't want to miss out.

• When you realize that Instagram is someones curated life, you realize how manufactured their profile actually is. What you see is what they want you to see.

• ​The sad truth is that friendly face isn’t Facebook’s true face; it’s a sham, just like it’s a sham to sit on a tractor so people will think you’re tall. Mark Zuckerberg uses your most intimate connections, the literal faces of the people you love, to fool you into thinking that he’s not picking your pocket and taking a wrecking ball to our media, to the integrity of our society, and to democracy itself.​

Links

• ​A plan to rescue the web​

• ​How to Fix Facebook—Before It Fixes Us​

• ​Growing apart and losing touch is human and healthy​

• ​Sex, Beer, and Coding: Inside Facebook’s Wild Early Days in Palo Alto​

• ​Reinvent the social web - André Staltz (2018)​

• ​Anti Social Media (2018)​

• ​Timeliner - All your digital life on a single timeline, stored locally.

• ​Regret-stergram (2018)​

• ​Sherlock - Find usernames across social networks.

• ​Mark Zuckerberg discussing future journalism platform with Mathias Döpfner (2019)​

• ​Sherlock - Find usernames across social networks.

• ​Sacha Baron Cohen on what is wrong with social media & ways to fix it (2019)​

• ​Killing my social media addiction (2019)​

• ​Jack Dorsey Wants to Decentralize Twitter (HN)

• ​tilde.club - Not a social network it is one tiny totally standard unix computer that people respectfully use together in their shared quest to build awesome web pages.

• ​Planetary - Building an open and humane alternative to Facebook.

• ​Twitterverse - Interactively explore visualizations of Twitter networks. (Tweet)

• ​Opportunities in consumer social (2020)​

• ​Pleroma - Free, federated social networking server built on open protocols. (Article) (HN) (Lobsters) (Deploy a Pleroma Server)

• ​Moa - Mastodon, Twitter, and Instagram Cross-poster.

• ​Lessons I've Learned After Gaining 100,000 Twitter Followers (2020)​

• ​Bridgy - Connects your web site to social media. Likes, retweets, mentions, cross-posting, and more.

• ​A Genocide Incited on Facebook, With Posts From Myanmar’s Military (2018) (Reddit)

• ​How Facebook Is Complicit in Myanmar’s Attacks on Minorities (2020) (HN)

• ​Auralite - New social network for the future. (Tweet)

• ​De-Escalating Social Media (2020) (HN)

• ​PG: The biggest source of stress for me at YC was running HN (2020)​

• ​Instagram Morphs into an Information Powerhouse (2020) (HN)

• ​Proof of X (2020)​

• ​TikTok and the Sorting Hat (2020) (HN)

• ​How to run a small social network site for your friends​

• ​A Blueprint for Content Governance and Enforcement (2018)​

• ​All the world's a stage. On alt accounts and communicative friction. (2020)​

• ​Wisdom Shelf - Social network focused on personal development.

• ​Relevant - Social Network Built On Trust.

• ​The Social Dilemma (HN)

• ​Books and resources to read to learn more about challenges of social networks​

• ​How TikTok's design makes the algorithm work (2020) (HN)

• ​Is this real life? (2020)​

• ​Social Cooling - Big Data's unintended side effect. (HN)

• ​What Is Social Cooling? (2017) (HN)

• ​Gurlic - Free and Open Communities. (HN) (Web tech used)

• ​Twt - New way to social media.

• ​Going Viral as a Woman in Tech (2020) (HN)

• ​Why Social Media Is So Good at Polarizing Us (2020) (Tweet)

• ​Party at My House: Darius Kazemi on Human-Scaled Social Media (2020)​

• ​Clusters rule everything around me (2020) (HN)

• ​The political economy of platforms (2020)​

• ​Media Manipulation Casebook - Digital research platform linking together theory, methods, and practice for mapping media manipulation and disinformation campaigns.

• ​Cooper - Private professional network. Get quality introductions from people you trust.

• ​Contra - New professional network for your independent journey.

• ​LinkedIn’s Alternate Universe (2020) - How the professional platform makes networking weird. (HN)

• ​Hiven - Chat platform from the future. (Themes)

• ​Hive Index - Discover Online Communities. (HN)

• ​Orbit Model - Framework for building high gravity communities. A high gravity community is one that excels at attracting and retaining members by providing an outstanding member experience. (Why Orbit is Better Than Funnel for Developer Relations)

• ​Why your Instagram Engagement Kinda Sucks Right Now (2020)​

• ​Most of what you read on the internet is written by insane people (2018) (HN)

• ​Social Analyzer - API and Web App for analyzing & finding a person profile across 300+ social media websites.

• ​Ask HN: What are decentralized Twitter alternatives? (2021)​

• ​Ask HN: Who is working on fully decentralized social networking? (2021)​

• ​My personal wishlist for a decentralized social network (HN)

• ​Myrme - Prosocial network. (Article)

• ​Martin Kleppman: Decentralized content moderation (2021)​